An Interesting Discussion

Saved this off the old Artifice Exposed group many years ago.

Been a long time since we just had a plain simple article.

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Hi Sue! I've been "caught" lots of times over the years, but one instance was pretty embarrassing in particular when I think back! I've worn falsies and padded bras since my teens and I'm 41 now so it's a pretty natural thing for me. One day a couple of years ago my husband and I were at the beach on holidays just soaking up the sun at a resort. Aside from not having even the beginnings of boobs I do have a nice slender body and nice legs etc so I wear fairly brief two piece bathing suits. My nipples are quite low and wide apart on my chest so the lower band of my top is normally just below them, and my "falsie boobs" sit somewhat higher. Well, we had met another really nice couple in the hotel while we were there and this day they had run across us and stopped to talk as we layed back on the lounge chairs. They were only there for about 5 minutes, but when they left I relized that my right "boob" had worked it's way up over my nipple, and left it bared to whoever wanted to check it out! Must have been quite the site for our friends - my tiny nipple, no boob at all, and a nicely filled top above it! My husband and I got a real laugh out of it but I was VERY embarrassed because they knew my secret, especially because we spent more time with them while we were there and I noticed more than once that they checked out the nice pointed 34-B's filling out my top knowing they were fake! How about you, Sue? Anyone else? 

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Karen: I know how you felt. Check my posts in "What I Learned". I know that there have been other instances when you could look down inside my bra or swim suit top. I have accepted that it is impossible to keep the fact that I wear falsies a secret at all times. I just like the way I look and figure that if I'm happy then I don't care if someone knows and thinks any the worse of me. I am very flat and would have no figure at all if I didn't wear padding of some sort. I think that by being worried if someone can tell I'm wearing falsies there is a much greater chance that someone will find out. I've had my suit pull up so that my nipples just showed at the bottom of the band. That happens mostly when I am sunning on my back. It also happens with my bras because I don't have anything to hold my bra down. The real problem there is that the top gaps open because if it rides up the straps don't hold my bra against my chest. I've had my falsies start to sneak out and they are very visible if you could look down inside my sweater or blouse. I've accepted these times as part of my life with padding. 

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I know what you mean about "living with being flat and wearing falsies" My husband has always liked me to dress sexy, and I admit I like doing it too, but I've always been paranoid about wearing tops that someone could easily see down and see that it was very obvious that there was nothing inside my bra but the falsies.Even if the cups of your bra stay against your chest it's obvious you're flat because the cups just stick out from your chest and there's no curves at all above them. The cups of my bras ALWAYS fall away from my chest (I check ALL the time in front of the mirror!)and I've given up on trying to stop this.Although I don't wear tops right up to my neck, I don't wear really low-cut ones either, but Bob likes the tops I wear and I feel good about that. I don't doubt that my secret's been found out more than once, but if they don't like it they don't have to look! I'm sure that a few eyes have glanced into the loose armholes of my summer tops too where it's pretty obvious I'm wearing a lot of padding in my bra. 

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Karen: I like to wear looser tops in the summer and I know it is possible to see inside them either through the arm holes of down the neck. I've even used fabric glue to tack the edges of my falsies into my bra so they wouldn't stick out. It ruins the foam pads because they rip off small pieces when I take them out. I don't do that any more and just keep my straps tight. The arm hole problem one I haven't completely solved yet. I can't find a bra that holds close on the sides and I'm so slender that my falsies hold my bra out slightly away from my chest. I've looked in the mirror and held my elbow up and you can look inside my bra and see the pads. I do have some stretch tricot fabric bras that tend to stay closer to my body, but you can see the my falsies through them so I'm not sure that is any better. I also wear padded bras with my falsies in them and that seems to be the best at concealing my secret. I pad from nothing to a 34B and Maidenform and Olga padded bras are my choice.